That part about "it's about showing where to start looking" really got me. I used to feel like I needed to have a smart answer ready for the big stuff. It stressed me out. Now I just try to point at a few different doors they could walk through, exactly like that librarian did. I mean, idk the meaning of life either, but I can show you what some other folks have said about it. Maybe it's just me, but that feels way more honest and actually helpful.

Yeah, that kind of schedule will wreck you. I mean, your body just never knows when to shut down. Sounds miserable.

Sounds like @andrew916's limits would've killed our bonus checks.